Quick Comment
When I was worrying about my weight and where can I get language partner. The med school girl shared me a sad/tasteless pic, forwarded me the last email she wrote to her ex.
My comments as below:
I’d like to curse the asshole with you, girl. But, it will unnecessarily consume too much energy just because of hate, and hate would only make a girl ugly. Think of it, the one with hating look, causes gloomy atmosphere, would you consider this girl a pretty one or even to like her? No one would…You also said you’re the best thing ever happened to your ex, then stick to your standard.
You have a” big heart “, smart, about to be a respectable surgeon in States, work with professional people and might meet someone who’s not only great but also cares about you. Let your ex live with his choice as he doesn’t care about such things.
Plus:
1. You don’t have to remind your ex what a mistake he made,as that’s not how your ex view things, otherwise, he wouldn’t break up with you in the first place. 2. It’s not about “good/bad” match when you talk about a couple/lovers, but ”compatible“ —-” One person’s trash is another person’s treasure.” You’re good, but not for him, he might happier with different kind girl from you. The girl might be as tasteless as him, closer to his level, but as long as he feels more comfortable to be with that girl. It’s no longer your business. No matter how pretty/smart/nice you are, you’re not his cup of tea. Find one who’s more compatible to you, or stay single happily until he shows up.
I totally understand your feelings right now. While, again, don’t punish yourself by getting angry and sad because of someone who definitely doesn’t care. The hard time will eventually over. Counting down for it~
Err, sorry, I said it was a short comment…
Love~
L
